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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 21.06.2025 00:29

How does one succeed in life?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Jenny from Perth writes – my partner is the life of the party, women and men adore him. But at home, he gets angry at us for the silliest reasons and never nice words me or our kids, always putting us down. Should I stay or leave him?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Why do people mourn when their leaders lose elections? Is it common for people to cry over events that are out of their control?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why are Christians quick to say that there are a lot the gay Christians that exist NOW and use that to pretend that Christianity is just loving to gays when the last 40 years of my life they been horrible?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why are people so terrified or bothered that a person has original creative ideas, hobbies or unique interests?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Have you ever lied to your family? What were the circumstances?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What is the difference between the Bible and the Qur'an?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why does my intimate area “sweat” and smell so much? I almost have to have a shower everyday. How do I get rid of this?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Does not procrastinate.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Is the Donald Trump Bible any different from a regular Bible? Has Trump altered its contents?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What I need from you?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What is the kinkiest thing you and your sex partner have done in bed?

That's it for today.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Why do I feel sleepy after massage?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Why am I so unproductive when it's a holiday the next day?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How effective will the Senate-passed bill, S. 4569, the Take It Down Act, which would criminalize the publication of non-consensual intimate imagery (NCII) be?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Ask yourself:

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

Hangs out with loser friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?